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Anonymous said: before i start, how did you day at uni go? it must be terrifying aha :-( anyway, recently i've realised that i really like a boy, but he's out of my league and all that crap and i always fall for boys that never like me back, so i need tips on how to stop liking him before i cant stop haha, do you have any? i cant be dealing with me being upset because im so used to liking boys who dont like me back and i dont want to go through it right now :-( thank you!
haha you’re like the only one online who’s actually asked me that. Thanks :) First day of Uni actually went well but it was quite overwhelming. People tell me I’ll settle down but that might take a while since I only have to come in for two days a week (monday and wednesday). To those who don’t know, I don’t live on campus. I think in Australia we don’t have to live on campus, but yeah…the only thing that terrifies me is if I get asked to speak! haha I’m usually okay with that but since everything is new, including the people and content, it’s a bit scary…now to your question!
I guess just try to not think about this boy so much. Don’t fantasize over him and what you two might look like if you were together. Try not to imagine cute stuff you could be doing and just really distract yourself when he comes to mind because constantly thinking of someone you want to get over is like feeding a fire. Thinking about him will only cause “the fire” to get bigger and it’ll be harder to get over…if that makes sense…hopefully it does…
Sorry I wasn’t able to answer any questions today. I’ve been out of the house since 10.30am (Sunday morning) and it is now 12.30am (Monday morning) - been really busy!
Just wanted to let you all know that I start University for the first time ever! Tips and advice for that would be great!
Have y’all seen Disney’s Frozen? Yeah, well I’m feeling like Princess Anna when she’s singing “For the First Time In Forever” hahaha. Listen to the lyrics and think of how me going to uni could relate to some of the words hahaha.
That’s pretty much all I needed to say.
I might not say it enough but I appreciate each and everyone of you and I hope you have a wonderful week.
Might update you again on how the first day of uni went!!
Anonymous said: So my boyfriend and I just broke up but we are going to get back together soon. Well, he gave me his phone yesterday and I read a message to this one girl and he said he liked her and she likes him. This was about 4 days ago. We talked about it and he said he didn't like her anymore, that he loves me. He sent me this long message saying how much he didn't wanna lose me and what not. Do I believe him? Should I worry about this other girl? Thanks!
I really think that’s is up to you if you should believe him or not. Because as you said, it was 4 days ago and to me personally, that’s pretty quick. If it all feels right to you, go for the relationship again. But if you have a bit of doubt, trust yourself and maybe don’t go for the relationship…
Anonymous said: hi! So long story short, I like this boy I work with. I'm 18 and I've never even had a real kiss let alone a relationship. He always says how much he enjoys working with me and that he's so glad that he got to know me better and we always flirt like nonstop but I can't help but feel scared of being rejected. I don't know how to put myself out there but I really like him. what can I do to make it a little more clear that I like him more than just a friend without embarrassing myself?
Maybe you could just tell him when you get a little opportunity to do so. Usually, I myself wouldn’t just tell I guy I like him first but since it sounds like the feelings are mutual between you two, you could tell him! but of course, that’s up to you :) Don’t over think the situation. Yes, it may be a big deal but don’t think about that too much because once you do, you might panic in the moment!
Anonymous said: So I've been in love with one of my close guy friends for two years. I recently found the courage to tell him that I like him. He said that he wasn't looking for a relationship right now. He also told me that he still wants to be my friend. But ever since then, things have been rather awkward between us. I just miss the way things used to be. What should I do to break the ice?
I believe that things are only awkward if we allow them to get awkward. When you talk to him, try to put what happened in the past behind you and try to move on. Maybe act like nothing happened (if you want)…break the ice just by asking him casual things like how he is, how his week is, what he has planned for the weekend or something like that and then from there, just branch out the conversation!
Anonymous said: Okay, so I have a problem. I've fallen in love with my best friend, who's really the only friend I've got. We started things rolling, it was like we were going out but weren't, making out and cuddling and stuff like that. We're growing further and further apart and I know that she doesn't want me. She's found someone else and they're probably going to get together. So, my question is, how do I move on when I see her every day? It hurts so much to know she's with someone else.
I guess it will be tough to move on because as you said, you see her everyday. But when you’re alone or away from her, just try not to think about her too much because if you do, those feelings will just keep on growing. It’s like a fire that you keep feeding with wood - it’ll just get bigger and bigger
Anonymous said: I don't wanna say I'm "messed up in the head" but I always feel depressed. Little things like friends never texting me back or if they hang out without me make me cry for hours and I can never shake this stressed feeling off me. I would never commit suicide, but I often think about it, and I am very explosive in my home where the smallest things make me angry. Any idea what's wrong with me?
That’s something which should be answered by somebody who is qualified! Could be symptoms of depression - I used to show these symptoms for a couple of months… get professional help/advice so that if there is something serious, you can deal with it as soon as possible. I’m here if you need to chat about anything! xx
Anonymous said: My exboyfriend of just under a year cheated on me right at the start of our relationship and started doing sexual things with someone else for about a week, we have been seeing eachother have had sex since I found out; I have been reluctant to give him a blowjob as I'm worried if I don't do it he will get another girl to do it, like before..even though he has proved to me he doesn't want anyone else. Or I do it and he cheats on me again anyway. I feel either way I can't win, what should I do:(
I think you deserve much better than this..
If he really loved you and you didn’t want to do sexual things with him, then he should have respected that and just left it.
How did he prove he doesn’t want anyone else when he’s cheated on you before? Personally, I wouldn’t encourage this. You said that with either way, you can’t win. I think you should put yourself first and find what makes you happy.
This was just my opinion and whatever you say and do is ultimately up to you…